Hair Down There

Posted on 5th March 2013 in Journal, Wicked Wednesday

This week’s Wicked Wednesday prompt is “?+?=?” and “me+hair=:(” here’s why;

So, Sir had me grow, and now has me maintaining, a landing strip. I thought I’d get used to it, maybe even grow fond of it, but I haven’t. Every time I shower I want to shave it off, I want it to be gone, to be quite honest, it disgusts me.

I’ve shaved my lady parts since hair appeared so it’s not something I’m used to seeing, I’m not a fan of any kind of bush on females in general so to see it on me is something of an issue. (If anyone is interested I love hairy men so go figure).

I’ve kept waiting for the moment where I look down and think “oh it’s not so bad,” and it hasn’t come and I know that if we broke up it would be gone seconds later. But I want to please him, to make him happy, and he likes it so I have to deal with it.

I’ve tried looking at porn with hairy ladies in it to desensitise myself to it, so to speak, but so far no luck.

Anyone got any suggestions? How to learn to love something you hate?
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19 Responses to “Hair Down There”

  1. Not beyond love it because he does.
    Hair is such a personal preference. For example, I don’t like to be bare (but am trimmed) because I feel like I look like a little girl, and that disgusts me. But that is my personal preference. I have no idea what I would do if a lover wanted it the other way, or if I would get “used” to it.

  2. KaziGrrl says:

    I can only echo that you’re doing it for him not yourself. If it were truly a dealbreaker you would never have done it, right?

    ~Kazi xxx

  3. If you are doing something for someone else rather than yourself, it will naturally take you longer to like it, if you ever get to like it at all. I find the whole hair/no hair thing interesting. Good luck with your search for answers, sorry I could not be of more help.

    Rachel x

  4. Molly says:

    I agree with Kazi. If this is beyond what you feel comfortable with in regards to demands of your body then you must say so and work through that. If not then give it time and focus on the WHY of doing it rather than the what

    Mollyxxx

  5. Lord Raven says:

    I don’t know about ideas to grow to like it but I would talk it over with your Sir. I am partial to the smooth skin myself but everyone is different. He might also be trying something new to stretch your boundaries. Just a thought

  6. I can only echo what the three ladies have said: you are doing it for him and maybe that helps to accept it in the long run. You might just need to have more patience with yourself. And maybe you can just discuss it with your sir? He might think of ways for you to accept it?

    Rebel xox

  7. SJ says:

    I always find a change I’m not used to takes longer, but if it is something you feel you can;t adjust to, then I echo the others; talk to him, tell him.

    To help? ?I don’t know, take photos, admire yourself in the mirror and play with the landing strip, caress the soft hairs and feel the difference in the whole vagina area, the different sensations and such

  8. Silverdrops says:

    We’re both fans of a little hair down there, with no ‘little girl’ issues when I am (rarely ) shaved. Echoing what the others have said: it is presumably not a dealbreaker, or you wouldn’t have done it. Can you focus on your Sir’s enjoyment of it and hope things change for you in time?

  9. Emily says:

    Have you asked Sir’s permission to play with it? To grow it a little longer so that you can tug on it? Perhaps you could explain to Sir that you find it difficult to have hair because you have been so used to not having it and you would like to work with him to learn to love it for him and for you. If you are able to find a way to gain physical pleasure from some hair, perhaps you will learn to appreciate the feel of it which may lead to appreciating the look of it. Sir may have some ideas about how to work with the hair for both of your benefit. It is something you should try to discuss with him. If you have a Sub journal that he reads, you could try writing all your thoughts down in there if you find it hard to talk about things with him.

  10. Persephone says:

    I think you’re right, it’s definitely something I need to talk to him about, I don’t find it enjoyable being pulled or stroked or anything so I don’t think that’s a way forward but will definitely talk to him.

  11. Persephone says:

    That’s what I’ve been trying but it feels like it’s been forever now and I still hate it, I’m at a loss for how to like it now.
    No, it’s not a dealbreaker, he’s too important to me for that, I just wish I didn’t go “ick” everytime I look down at myself, y’know?

  12. Persephone says:

    I’ve tried taking photos of it and looking at it in the mirror, I just can’t get past the ick factor. I’ll definitely talk to him about it though.

  13. Persephone says:

    I think it’s a good idea to talk to him about it. I just feel like my patience with it is already exhausted, it’s so hard.

  14. Persephone says:

    Yea, I’m sure he has his reasons and I definitely need to talk to him about it

  15. Persephone says:

    I certainly don’t feel comfortable with it but I don’t want to give in when I know it’s something he wants me to do. I’ll definitely talk to him about it and in the meantime focus on the why.

  16. Persephone says:

    True, it’s not a deal breaker because he’s very important to me but I am finding it very difficult to live with.

  17. As many have mentioned above, communication is key. After all he communicated to you that he wished this of you & you followed his wishes. You ultimately hold the power to say no. But by the very act of actually doing it, means deep down you want to please him. Of course, you’ve mentioned this.

    I feel unable to add anything profound. But, ask him, ask him what you could do so you love it more.

    I think overall, even though it’s something you are not keen on, there are far more delicious things to focus on. One being, what you having a landing strip actually does for him.

    Reap the benefits of that :)

    Pea ~x~

  18. Persephone says:

    I think you’re absolutely right that I need to communicate with him and see if he has any idea to help.

    It’s so hard to focus on his enjoyment of it at the moment, I really am trying though!



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