30 Days of Kink: Day 30

Posted on 13th March 2012 in 30 Days of Kink, Non Kink

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 On not being X/Y/Z enough

I go through phases of kink. I’m kinky all the time, but there are times, a lot of times, where I don’t feel kinky enough. There’s so many ‘hardcore’ kinksters out there and I find it impossible to not compare myself with them: they don’t mind doing this, they love that, they do all these things I can’t…it goes on.

So now is one of those times where I find myself pondering if I should just drop out of kink for good and accept that I’m never going to be a good submissive because of my limitations and fears that I shan’t go into here, well, not right now anyway. Suffice to say they are unchangeable.

I don’t want to, when I don’t feel like this I love kink and when I’m enjoying it with someone special it’s the best thing ever, but right now I have no one special (in a LTR sense) and am beating myself up about all my failings and wondering if it’s worth it. Afterall, it’s supposed to be fun, not a lesson in all the things you suck at/can’t do.

The 2 Dom’s I’m currently playing with are understanding, but I still feel like I’m letting them down all the time and I hate that, but I can’t just magically change who I am and how I am.

*sighs*

I shall now stop rambling and promise a naughty post next time.

http://www.insatiabledesire.com/2010/08/09/thirty-days-of-kink/

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One Response to “30 Days of Kink: Day 30”

  1. don’t compare yourself to others . there are always people who do things you don’t or have fewer limits than you .
    your limits define you as much as the things you are happy doing ,if others want more they can get it else where .
    yes , it should be fun , so stop worrying and enjoy xxxx



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